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An Answer to Shari ~
Her
Question:
Sent: Monday, May 26, 2003 8:57 AM
Re:
I have to get some info from you on child abuse...
Hi
Shelley ~ My daughter (Cherie) not Megan this is my real
daughter by another man. Well, Friday night her dad hit
her bruised her face up and made her nose bleed. I know
now I shoulda called the cops but they sent her to a
friends house for the night her friend saw the whole
thing! For years I have been in & outta court
battling because I gave her to my gram when I was 19 I
was an alcoholic! Soon after I recovered got her back
only to not live in a lasting marriage with a man in a
wheel chair that was old enough to be my dad. I loved
him but not the way we fall in love~I moved in with my
gram again to argue with her and bam she took her to her
dads to live and threw me out. So I have been thru quite
alot with this thing with my daughter..me and the
husband I am with we went to court to try to get her the
judge ordered anger counseling first in the mean time
she moved in with her grandma then back to dads when I
was finished my classes... We didn't want to hurt her
being she had made a decision to live with dad again...
Now this stuff is so far out of hand I guess I should
get involved I just seem to have horrible luck with
getting her back! They are really like not the best
people to deal with they call social services for
everything I am studying Wicca and as soon as her
grandma (his mom) finds out that will be next. Anyways
his mom wants her to stay with her I am not crazy about
this she's an alcoholic and likes to be dramatic argues
alot with people... I think my home is best she will
have her own room etc we live well (meaning we have
rules and structure here a nice place as well but we
live good) her dad doesn't ground her and take
privileges he hits her which I don't like that at all he
could kill her~He beat on me and I left when she was one
year old...He put stitches in my head and leg hitting
me. I just don't want to neglect this any longer has
done this one time I said ok then he was put on
paxill... But two times that's not excusable behavior
for a parent! Shari*
My
Answer Tarot Reading:
Dear
Sweet Shari,
That's
not excusable behavior for anyone... period. He
needs help, and so does your daughter and everyone
involved. I'm not judging anyone here, but
merely pointing out the obvious. I'm doing a
reading at this moment, asking for the guidance to
reveal to you what you most need to be aware of in
this time of tribulation. Here goes...
There is
clearly an escapism issue going on here on her
father's part, as well as on everyone else's.
And, all involved are in some manner being made to
face issues from the past concerning alcohol
abuse and related family escapism patterns.
You're all being taught that you must face reality and
defeat these old patterns from the past, by
learning to make different choices. You are
being asked to shed your old skins for new coats of
brilliant colors.
Her
father is hiding from reality by burying his face
in a glass. This is not wrong but
necessary, so that everyone involved may be forced to
ask themselves very hard questions that will strip
them to the very core of who they really are.
It's like being burned, refined by fire, which
eventually gives birth to a diamond inside. This
is sometimes described as diamond consciousness... and
when you achieve it, you act as a prism of light and
radiate a beautiful aura. Your ex is acting
out of his own need to find himself. Everyone
involved is left with a choice in this matter that
makes them ask themselves what is right... what will I
take away from this experience, and how can I live with
myself once I do? Each of you is pealing
away who you really are at the core of your being,
by having to make tough life altering decisions.
Each choice that's made is causing a reaction
(known as karma) that will give birth to something
else, another situation you each must face.
So... you want to make sure you are each always
creating a win-win situation, instead of competing
with each other to win glory for your own egos.
Each of you is molding yourself into who you
already are at your very core. You are
making yourself into who you want to be, by your
very own command. Every choice is a voice you
use to call your reality into being... It's also
known as free will, and is our greatest gift.
You
already know the answer in your heart about who to
contact and what to do. I cannot offer such
advice. I can only guide you in finding it
out for yourself. If you'll only be
still long enough to listen to what it's telling
you, you will know what is right. The
toughest choices you have to make are the ones that
test you the most. The hardest answer to give
yourself is often times the right answer. The
right answer always seems to be the answer you will
resist most hearing, as it usually requires the
greatest amount of personal-ego sacrifice. The
right answer is the one that struggles for its life
against your alter-ego (your mask who offers up
excuses), and defends the you-you want everyone
to believe you to be.
You,
your daughter, your ex, his mother, must all learn
to stop denying your authentic (real) selves...
the person each of you is beyond your fears,
vanity, pride, defenses, masks, roles, lies,
make-believe-wish-I-could-if-only lives, that are
fighting for control.
You are
each learning about how to find true and lasting
peace, that can only come from within. We
are all cups looking to be filled up with love, but true
contentment comes from radiating love out... not by
holding on to it. Being empty so that love
may continually pass through you and fill you at
the same time, is a hard lesson to learn, and requires dedication
to learning it, and a hollowing out of all that's in
the center that gets in the way... things like fears,
vanity, pride, defenses, masks, roles, lies,
make-believe-wish-I-could-if-only, so that you may be
molded like pottery into the channel of light you
are meant to be. It's what is meant by having a
light body. Each must accomplish the
learning of letting go. Each of you must
face your attachments to how you think
things must be in order for you to be happy. Each
of you will eventually, through these trials, learn
that the best results come from striving for the
happiness of everyone.
All
souls search for everlasting peace and
contentment. It's this very searching that keeps evolution
on its course. There is no real chaos, only the
appearance of such. When one is on the conscious
path of awakening, one starts to recognize and correct
patterns of behavior, and begins to understand how to
break attachments to old beliefs of who they are, and
emerge (like a butterfly) into a more fulfilled
being... a being that radiates more light,
more enthusiasm, more contentment, and is more joyously
expressive and accepting.
Everyone
involved here is being shown, as in a mirror,
the very pool of energy they are swimming in,
through their own beliefs about who they are.
And each of you is being offered a guiding light
in the darkness. That guiding light is truth... be
honest with your-Self, and you will be finding your
way out of the labyrinth created by your own doubts
and fears... you will see exactly what you need
to do (decide) in order to find a place of
serenity within. The way is simple, and the path
is always made clear by honesty. It starts with
honesty to yourself above all things. First you
must find that place of honesty inside you, then you
must live it, and use it to create your reality... to
make your dreams come true. Everyone is
searching for their dream, their ultimate reality to
bring them peace of mind, stillness.
There
will be another event that will take place in the
immediate future, a truth that will come out and cause
a breaking down of old patterns. It will give
way to a new understanding for all. Focus and
attention are required in order to achieve what you
really want. You must give it your mind, heart,
body and soul. Give it the works...
These
issues you are dealing with are deep rooted in your
childhood, and you are seeing how you have passed them
down to your daughter by the example set early in her
life. She is also dealing with these same
childhood issues as she becomes a woman. These
repeated patterns of behavior, of not being true to
who you really are, and trying to escape
your lives, has caused each of you to make yourselves
into something that someone else says you should be... in
order for you to receive praise, attention, and
acceptance... those things that make you feel you
are loved.
You have
attracted to yourself, through your need to recognize
and break these old patterns, a group of other souls
who are also learning these same lessons, so
that they may be forced to evolve. There is no
escaping this merry-go-round until you each finally
learn to be honest with everyone at all times... no
matter how you think it may be received... no matter
how you think it will make someone else feel, or
whether they will confirm to you that you are
making the right decision. Only you know what is
right for you. We are never responsible for how
someone else feels. Perception (how we see
things) is the key to our reality. Our lives are
how we make them through what we choose to believe.
Everything is true... all thoughts are true because
they exist. When we believe something, we will
prove it to our selves to be true, for as it creates
our life's situations it is also confirming to us our
very faith in it. We can choose to change what
we believe, and change our lives in the process.
If it is thought, then it is real. A thought
which is a thing, creates an emotional reaction, which
then gives birth to another more far reaching thing.
Like a sonic blast it echoes repeatedly through
infinite space, forever creating continuous reactions
without limits, without boundaries, beyond
conceivability... Like a pebble thrown in a
pond.
Your
daughter has been reflecting to you, and you to her, a
need to learn about attachment. It is a lesson
about mastering and bringing into balance your
emotions. It's about learning how to offer
longevity and loyalty to others, through learning how
to express your feelings without using possessiveness,
jealousy, blame, seduction or manipulation as factors
in your communication. You must remove these
temptations from you when you express yourself
and your position to others. Always ask yourself
what your "motivation" is. Always
ask yourself WHY and HOW before you make a decision.
Question your motives, and test yourself to see
if you are being selfish and trying to control the
situation to reach an outcome of your own desire,
before choosing. Teach your daughter to ask
herself the same questions. Teach her to be
strong in her right to choose freedom over a prison of
lies she could be constructing for herself.
Teach your daughter how to follow the song of her own
heart... no matter what!
You are
looking for spiritual truth, love, and someone to
consciously expand and create with. You must
learn to have spiritual bravery, and exemplify it to
and for your daughter. Show her how to stand up
for what she believes in by being an example to
her... Tell her where you are coming from, explain
WHY, and have the courage to live by what you know to
be true... ALWAYS... because it is the answer you
received from within, from that place of real love
(not selfishness disguised as love), a place of
clearness (peace of mind) that radiates from inside... not because
you BELIEVE it to be true, but because you KNOW
it to be true, because you have PROVEN it to yourself
through practice and patience, and KNOW it is
right. KNOW that you are being true to your
own heart. In any situation this is the
only thing that will keep you from creating a
prison-reality constructed of lies... These lies
(even what you think to be little white lies) will
gradually build over your life-time, a castle up
around you in which you will live. This fortress will
become your home, built for you by your own
voice-of-choice... by your own belief that your
decisions have been for your own safety and security
in this seeming dog-eat-dog world. Eventually
though, you will feel as if you are imprisoned by
your own mote. You will desire to escape the
very existence you have worked so hard to create.
You will break it down any way you can, either
consciously or unconsciously. You must face
every mask you wear, and then tear it off and discard
it, showing everyone your true identity, before you
can truly ever be happy.
You
are hoping to bring people together to create a
greater whole. You can do this by learning
and teaching your daughter at the same time, how
to prevent self doubt. When you are
over-analytical, then when you are faced with a
choice, you will go back and forth between
two situations, two people, two issues etc.
You are going to be facing such dilemmas in this
very situation in the upcoming future, and all you
need to do when they arise is listen to your
own honest answers from within. Your inner
guide speaks from that place where everything is
stripped away except for love. Your heart will
show you the way. Teach yourself and your
daughter through your trials as you walk them
together. Talk to her as if she can
understand... open up and tell her what I am telling
you. Let her read this too. No matter
what, she will be ok, as long as she listens to her
self, and uses her real authentic voice to speak.
Working together, the two of you can create a new
life, a more loving and peaceful existence.
When you are interfering with your own mind, and
feel caught in a state of doubt or
confusion, it is a time to wait, not to act.
The next eight weeks and the next eight months will
bring much needed clarity. Trust and wait
instead of overanalyzing for the purpose of
attempting to control the situation.
Ask for
the answer to be revealed to you. ~
Ask to know, and it will be so ~
Trust
only in yourself. Ask for a sign through a
dream, or something unmistakable, that
brings you peace in knowing. It will be done,
for that is the answer the Holy Spirit brings always,
as promised.
Honesty
is more important than love. What we believe
love to be is not always love. The highest form
of love is compassion, and the will to sacrifice
yourself for a greater good. Honesty reveals
love; it is the only way to find it. It is a
corner stone on which love builds its house. Be
true to yourself; it's the only way you can be true to
your daughter. All will turn out for the best
for everyone involved.
With
Love, and a peace in KNOWING that all is as it
should be,
P.S. - My feeling is that your daughter will be moving
in with you soon. Focus on and ask for what is
BEST for her. Know that you are better now, and
live your new being into reality. I see a new
home in Cherie's future that is filled with much more
security, one that provides a much better foundation
for her success. Trust in this and all will be
well.
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