4 Rules to Live Your Life By

This is all you need to practice in order to find your way in life...
to find your self love, your soulmate, and your purpose.

These are also known as the 4 rules of negotiation or peace making, and can be applied to ANY relationship or situation to bring about the highest good for everyone concerned, ALWAYS.

1. Be present

2. Listen

3. Tell the Truth

4. Release Attachment to the Outcome

Explanation:

1. Being present means showing up, and being willing to be part of the solution...which means you must be WILLING to HEAR the other person out.
    

2. Listening is really HEARING what someone is telling you.  You are not  listening if you are thinking about what you need to say next, in order to achieve the outcome you desire.
    

3. Telling the TRUTH is communicating how you REALLY FEEL, at a heart (soul) level, regardless of what you FEAR may or may not be the outcome. The truth will ALWAYS set you free, even if telling it is scary.
    

4. Releasing attachment to the outcome is being willing to accept whatever happens as being for the best.  If you are attached to the outcome, you will not be able to do steps 1, 2, or 3.   Attachment is selfishness, not love.  Love is acceptance. It is allowing the other person to be who they really are, and giving them the freedom to do what they feel is right for them at a heart level. 

After all, isn't this what you REALLY want from someone in return, to be present, to listen, to tell you the truth about how they feel, and to be willing to accept whatever it is you need for yourself, even if it's not what they want for or from you?

You must GIVE that which you wish to receive!