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How to Find Your Soulmate & Your Self

Part 2 - preface, part 1

Find Your Self, and You Will Find Your Soulmate

What happens when you are UNCLEAR
or NOT REAL in a relationship?

The Tower - Thoth DeckBeing UNCLEAR in a relationship is hiding part of yourself. When you do this you create a prison for both you and your partner to live in, which must eventually be escaped because it has been built on untruths.  Happiness can only come from wholeness. You must have the courage to speak the truth you hear and feel coming from within, no matter what you fear will be the outcome.  Nothing real and lasting can stand on a lie.

Being UNCLEAR is choosing to say or do something other than what your heart is telling you; it is abandoning yourself, and not trusting in your own soul to guide you.  Every time you are UNclear you are tearing down your own self-confidence, self-like, self-esteem, self-acceptance, and self-respect.

You are UNCLEAR when:

  • You refuse to trust in, or rely on your own abilities; this tears down your self-confidence.

  • You do not enjoy your own company, because who wants to be around liars or pretenders, this tears down self-like.

  • You under value yourself by not considering your own opinion or course in life to be of importance, this tears down your self-esteem.

  • You repeatedly do not approve of or believe in your own character; this tears down your self-acceptance.

  • You do not honor or show consideration for your own feelings and needs, this tears down your self-respect.

Being UNCLEAR causes guilt, remorse, carries karmic debt, and creates obstructions and impurities within the self. It is critical to define ‘tearing’ here, and to point out that the word ‘ear’ is also contained within ‘tear’.  You can replace the 't' in ‘tear’ with an 'h' to make ‘hear.'  At all times you have the choice to 1) hear and honor your self, or to 2) hide and tear your self down.

TEAR etymologically comes from 'skin,' 'hide' (please note: to be UNCLEAR is to hide your true feelings).  'Tear' ultimately dates back to prehistoric Indo-European based *sken- 'cut off, section, segment.' Tearing yourself down is the same thing as cutting part of your self off.

Today 'tear' means 'to pull apart or separate into pieces, to divide with doubt, uncertainty, torment [a mind torn between duty (head) and desire (heart)].'  It is equally important to show that the root word 'skin,' contains the word 'sin.'

Sin is linked etymologically to Latin *sons 'guilty,' to English *sooth 'truth,' and to Sanskrit *satya- 'real, true.' The ancestral meaning of sin is simply 'to be guilty of not telling the truth.'

The other definition of 'tear' is 'crying, weeping, sorrow, grief.' The word 'grief' comes from the root 'oppress,' which is 'to subdue; repress emotions (feelings), passions.' When you 'tear' yourself down, you create your own tears and grief because you are cutting off your head from your heart, and creating inner division.


How To Find Your Soul Mate & Your Self Part 3 - What Will Cause You To Be UNCLEAR In a Relationship?

 

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