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You are the ONE you're looking for!
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Part 2 -
preface,
part 1
Find Your Self, and You Will Find
Your Soulmate
What happens when you are UNCLEAR
or
NOT REAL in a relationship?
 Being UNCLEAR in a relationship
is hiding part of yourself. When you do this you create a prison for
both you
and your partner to live in,
which must eventually be
escaped because it has been built on untruths. Happiness can only come from wholeness. You must have the courage to speak
the truth you hear and feel coming from within, no matter what you fear will be the outcome.
Nothing real and lasting can stand on a lie.
Being
UNCLEAR
is choosing to say or do something other than what your heart is
telling you; it is abandoning yourself, and not trusting in your own soul
to guide you. Every time you are UNclear you
are tearing down your own self-confidence, self-like,
self-esteem, self-acceptance,
and self-respect.
You are UNCLEAR when:
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You
refuse to trust in, or rely on your own abilities; this
tears down your self-confidence.
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You do
not enjoy your own company, because who wants to be around
liars or pretenders, this tears down self-like.
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You under
value yourself by not considering your own opinion or
course in life to be of importance, this tears down
your self-esteem.
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You
repeatedly do not approve of or believe in your own
character; this tears down your self-acceptance.
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You do
not honor or show consideration for your own feelings and needs, this
tears down your self-respect.
Being
UNCLEAR causes guilt, remorse, carries
karmic debt,
and creates obstructions and impurities within the self. It is critical to define ‘tearing’
here, and to point out that the word ‘ear’ is also contained
within ‘tear’. You can replace the 't'
in ‘tear’ with an 'h' to make ‘hear.'
At all times you have the choice to 1) hear and honor your
self, or
to 2) hide and tear your self down.
TEAR etymologically comes from
'skin,' 'hide' (please note: to be
UNCLEAR is to hide your true feelings).
'Tear'
ultimately dates back to prehistoric Indo-European based *sken-
'cut off, section, segment.' Tearing yourself down is
the same thing as cutting part of your self off.
Today
'tear' means 'to pull apart or separate into pieces, to
divide with doubt, uncertainty, torment [a mind torn
between duty (head) and desire (heart)].' It is equally important to
show that the root word 'skin,' contains the word 'sin.'
Sin
is linked etymologically to Latin *sons 'guilty,' to
English *sooth 'truth,' and to Sanskrit *satya- 'real,
true.'
The ancestral meaning of sin is
simply
'to be guilty of not telling the truth.'
The
other definition of 'tear' is 'crying, weeping,
sorrow, grief.' The word 'grief' comes from the root
'oppress,' which is 'to subdue; repress emotions
(feelings),
passions.' When you 'tear' yourself down, you create
your own tears and grief because you are cutting off your
head from your heart, and creating inner division.
love
letters - examples of being authentic
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