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You are the ONE you're looking for!
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Part 1 -
preface
Find Your Self, and You Will Find Your Soul
Mate
How to Find Your Soul Mate & Your Self
Bottom line: You will find your soul mate through
The Law of Attraction.
Physics defines
The Law of Attraction
as the mutual (shared in common) action by which
bodies or particles tend to draw together or
cohere (hold together in a mass that resists
separation). You must make yourself into or like
the person you wish to attract and stay together
with.
Give what you want to
get in relationships and all things in
life! You will ALWAYS get what you
give, no exceptions. This Universal Law
is always at work and is why the Golden Rule is
"Do unto others as you would have them do unto
you"... because what you do to others will
ALWAYS be done to you!
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If you want someone to love and accept you
unconditionally, love and accept your self
unconditionally.
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If you want someone to always
tell you the truth about how they feel, always
tell the truth about how you REALLY feel,
regardless of what you fear will happen.
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If you want
someone who is faithful, be faithful.
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If you
want someone to listen and hear what you are
saying, listen and hear what they are saying.
You will ALWAYS attract to yourself that which
is like you, whether you are willing to
recognize this truth or not. A relationship is a
mirror in which you can see your own reflection. Your
opinion of someone shows where you need to make
adjustments
in how you relate to yourself.
If you attract a partner who is emotionally
unavailable, then you yourself are emotionally
unavailable and need to learn how to voice your
true feelings. If you attract someone who is
jealous and possessive, then you yourself are
jealous and possessive and need to learn how to
release attachment and control, and to give
space and emotional freedom.
When you find fear is preventing you from
speaking your truth, it is trying to show you exactly
where you are out of balance, and what you need to
face in order
to get unstuck and move in the right direction.
Fear pin-points where you are not willing to
live your truth and
illuminates the path you must follow to find
your self love, your soulmate, your purpose or
anything else you desire. You must face your
fears... They are illuminating the next step on
the path to finding true happiness.
In the hundreds of tarot readings I have performed,
every question ALWAYS boils down to having the
same answer or conclusion... You must
face what you fear and follow your heart of
hearts to find
happiness. It's not about yes or
no or what will or won't happen if you do this
or that... It is ALL about what your heart
really wants versus the reasons why you are
AFRAID to follow it. You must be willing
to face your fears and let go of the things
that are not real, in order to find the things
that are!
How To Love
Your Self
Self love requires Confidence,
Like,
Esteem,
Acceptance and
Respect for who
YOU are.
The word
CLEAR becomes apparent in
the search for self-love and
is the key to becoming whole, and
to finding your soulmate.
Let's examine what's required to
meet each of these conditions:
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Confidence requires trust, faith, reliance, assurance, and
belief in your own abilities.
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Like requires that you
are pleased with, and enjoy being the
person you are.
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Esteem requires that you consider your own opinion and
course in life as valuable.
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Acceptance requires that you continually approve of
and believe in who you are.
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Respect requires paying close
attention to how you feel, and regarding your own needs. You respect yourself when you can
'look back' on your
words, actions, and deeds,
and know you have acted with integrity.
Please note the words EAR and
REAL are present
in the word CLEAR. These three
words: clear, ear and real, show us how
to go about
achieving
self-love. Practicing being
CLEAR and
REAL, and using your
inner
EAR is all that's needed to find your soulmate.
Let's review each of these words as applied
to the self:
CLEAR shares a root with 'claim, declare, call out, and
counsel'. Today it translates as being 'transparent, easily
seen or heard, not obscure, open, obvious, certain' and
also
'free from guilt, free from debt, free from obstruction,
free from impurities, innocence'.
To be clear you must not HIDE anything when declaring or
making a claim.
Implied by definition, you are innocent when speaking openly and
honestly about WHATEVER you feel inside... no matter what
it is.
REAL
is translated as 'existing as or in fact, actual, true,
genuine, authentic, honest, free from deceit'. To
be real, you must not lie, wear masks,
play roles or say anything other than what you truly
feel in your heart.
EAR
comes from 'perception, perceive.'
'Perceive' and
'ear' share the same root meaning, 'to take hold of, feel,
comprehend, to grasp mentally, recognize, observe,
be aware of.' The HEART, besides
being a vital muscle, is defined as being the 'inner most
feelings or passion.' It is said to be the residing place
of the soul, the guiding voice of the self... which can only
be
'perceived' with the inner ear, thus it is
fitting it contains the words 'ear' and 'hear'.
Inner hearing is to be aware of how
your heart feels.
The Rumanian word for 'heart' inima, comes from the
Latin anima, meaning 'soul'. Everyone has heard the
idioms, 'heart to heart talk', 'follow your heart', 'listen to
your heart', and 'speak from the heart'. Heart is also connected etymologically and is
interchangeable with the word
courage.
To be
CLEAR you must have the courage to be
REAL and to follow your heart (soul) wherever it may lead!
This is how you will find your soulmate and your self. You must make being CLEAR your moral code
of conduct.
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Before speaking or acting,
first stop and consider how you really feel...
HEAR
the deepest messages of your
HEART (soul) with
your inner EAR.
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Have the courage to be honest, to stand by your heart's desire in word and deed.
Do what you feel is right
for you,
regardless of what you fear may or may not happen.
Two people
who can be CLEAR
with each other at all times are soulmates. This is because
they can allow each other the space and freedom to be
REAL. Soulmates do not place
expectations on each other to fulfill ideals of
what they think love should be.
Remain committed to you first and to being who
you REALLY are, and to making your outside
like your inside
and you will eventually draw your soulmate into your life.
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