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Want to find your soul mate;
wondering if you already
have?
Most of my poems and love letters were written to a man
named Kade in 1999. He was someone I wanted to be my
soul-mate with all my heart. But, he was only meant to come
into my life for a short season. And, what a harvest my-Self did realize, in that Spring of
awakening, a time of testing all that I believed myself to
be.
I was determined to show him who I
REALLY
was, whether he would accept me or not, trusting the
guidance of my soul, as it said to me, "never again deny
your heart."
Even though I've grown and changed a thousand times
over since writing these love letters, I keep them
available to document my journey, so that they may serve
as an example of how to go about being
AUTHENTIC in a relationship. They
are about being honest with the one you confess to love.
Telling the truth is not always easy, not when you
are
attached to the outcome of your fate with someone.
But,
being
REAL
will always bring about the very best possible
outcome in any situation. The practice of being
authentic
will eventually lead you to your soulmate. It may
take a lot of trying to get it right, but as long you are being
honest, you will never have any reason for regret, and will learn to
have faith in your self.
When you say what you think someone
wants to hear, or what you think you need to say in order
to achieve a specific outcome, you are not being true to
your self. Instead, you are
TEARING
your self in two (causing division between your head and
heart).
When you allow your head to rule your heart, you set yourself up
for
DISAPPOINTMENT.
When approval from another is required
for you to feel accepted, loved, and worthy, you will say and do
what you think will acquire it. When you see things
as you would like them to be, instead of how they really
are, you create an emotional prison for yourself and
those around you to live in, and prolong your separation
from your true soul mate.
How to Find Your Soul Mate
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Love Letters Index:
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Why I Made This
Site |
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My 1st REAL Letter to a Guy
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God,
Love & Destiny |
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Jealousy,
Fear & Insecurity |
Truth,
Manipulation
& Game-Playing |
Vulnerability,
Pride
& Admitting You Need Someone
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Expectations,
Perception & Means over End |
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Ego, Anger
& Attack, Pain,
Guilt, Fear, Perception, Judgment,
Forgiveness, Defensiveness |
Why Must We
Suffer
Pain? |
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PAIN, JOY & SORROW |
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My
Mom's Death |
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Bible Numerology - Hidden
Secrets - "Let There Be Light"
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Who Is Kade? |
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Thank
you Kade, for always taking me as I
am. Thank
you for helping me find my
"voice", by being a
shining beacon of truth.
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