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Want to find a soul mate;
wondering if you already
have?
Most of my poems and love letters were written to a man
named Kade in 1999. Someone I 'wanted' to be my
soul-mate. He was only meant to come
into my life for a short season, but what a harvest
my-Self did realize, in that Spring of Awakening, a time
of testing all that I believed myself to be. I was determined to show him who I
REALLY
was, whether he would accept me or not, trusting the
whisper of my soul, as it said to me, "Shelley, never again deny
your heart."
Even though I've grown and changed a thousand times
over since writing these love letters, I keep them
available to document my journey, so that they may serve
as an example of how to go about being
REAL in a relationship. They
are about being honest with the one you confess to love.
Telling the truth is not always easy, especially when you
are
attached to the outcome of your fate with someone, but
being
REAL
will always bring about the very best possible
outcome in any situation. The practice of being
real
will eventually lead you to your soul mate. It may
take many tries to get it right, but as long you are being
honest, you will never have any reason for regret, and will learn to
have faith in your self.
When you say what you think someone
wants to hear, or what you think you need to say in order
to achieve a specific outcome, you are not being true to
your self. Instead you are
TEARING
your self in two (splitting your personality from your soul -
head vs. heart).
When your head abandons your heart, you set yourself up
for
DISAPPOINTMENT.
If you desire love and approval, and feel it is required
for you to feel accepted and worthy, you will say and do
what you think will fulfill this need. When you see things
as you would like them to be, instead of how they really
are, you create an emotional prison for your-Self and
those around you to live in, and prolong your separation
from your true soul mate.
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Love Letters Index:
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Why I Made This
Site |
To
You
Do You Know Who You Are?
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My 1st REAL Letter to a Guy
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God,
Love & Destiny |
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Jealousy,
Fear & Insecurity |
Truth,
Manipulation
& Game-Playing |
Vulnerability,
Pride
& Admitting You Need Someone
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Expectations, Our
Perception, The End & The Means |
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Ego, Attack, Pain,
Guilt, Anger, Fear, Perception, Judgment,
Forgiveness, Defensiveness |
Why Must We
Suffer Emotional
Pain? |
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PAIN, JOY & SORROW |
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My
Mom's Death |
A
Wicked Dream
this way comes |
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Bible Numerology - Hidden
Secrets - "Let There Be Light"
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Who Is Kade? |
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Thank
you Kade, for always taking me as I
am. Thank
you for helping me find my
"voice", by
being a shining beacon of truth.
This site is dedicate to
you.
Read How to Find Your Soul Mate
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