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Finding your soulmate is a journey that begins within you!
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ADVICE ON HOW TO
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Free
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Preface
Soul Mate Test:
Millions search for their soul mate online every
month. Are you looking for your soul mate? Are you
wondering if the person you are with now is your
soul mate? If you have to ask, the answer is
probably NO!
Yes, I'm shouting with emphasis! When you are with
your soul mate you will know it. How you ask? Because
YOU are the one you’re looking for.
How I discovered my soul mate and my
purpose:
My search for my soul-mate began at age
twenty seven, the year my mother's breath went
back to God, on the day she turned forty-seven.
I decided life was too short to live without
passion, and finally mustered up the courage to
admit to my faithful, adoring husband of seven
years, my daughter’s father, that I wasn't in
love with him. Ignoring the counsel of my heart
to wait, I said yes to his marriage proposal on the rebound, when
he popped the question at a surprise engagement
party disguised as my twenty-first birthday
bash. We had only known each other two months.
I
just couldn't stop carrying a torch for my old high
school sweetheart, even though we hadn't spoken in
seven years. Ours was a fiery, codependent
relationship, based on sex and control, and it was
on-again-off-again for five years. It started when I
was seventeen and persisted until just before I
turned twenty-one, ending without closure. Tracking
him down, I called to test the waters, and he
admitted he still loved me too. Convinced we were
soul mates, in no time we were back together. Our
rekindling lasted only a year. When it ended I was
sick, punishing myself for repeated mistakes and
wrecked progress. Jobless and destitute in a small
town, I gave sole custody of my six year old
daughter to her father, along with the deed to our
home to avoid foreclosure. I moved seventy five
miles away to my dad’s house to start over. By
thirty-three I had gone through five more
relationships, and that was just the beginning.
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The short version of
my love life is that it took more than twenty tries
to find Mr. Right, so needless to say I'm an expert
on the wrong way to
win a man.
Being a sex
crazed mind blowing teaser who aims to please,
with curves and a smart head for business, just
isn't the magic formula ladies, take it from me. Every time
I wore that mask I lost. I played a convincing "I
can bring home the bacon, fry it
up in a pan, and never-ever let you forget
you're a man" kind of girl...
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Me in
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This is what I thought men wanted, but all it got
me in
return was disappointment. What was my problem? What
was his? Sound familiar?
I found the acceptance and reverence I craved
from another, by learning to first give it to
myself. I started recognizing loss as
an opportunity for growth and better things to
come, and vowed never again to abandon the voice
of my heart. The greatest wisdom I have to share
is this:
Truth is the path
to love, and love is the only thing worth
pursuing.
People now
consult me from across the globe concerning
their relationships. The number one question I'm
asked is, "when will I find my soul mate?" My
answer is always, "when you find yourself." The
next question is "how do I do that?"… "How do
I find myself?" The purpose of this website is to
guide as many as possible to the answer.
Soul Mate Definition:
What is a Soul Mate?
There are many opinions about what soul mates are, and if they even really exist. The
romanticized version is that every person has a soul mate, their other half in
polarity with whom they will one day reunite and share eternity, sharing a
one of a kind love that completes and uplifts them both. This explanation of
soulmate love is something everyone hopes
to find with another, yet can only be validated by the two people experiencing
it.
Soul Mate Definition:
The dictionary defines a soul mate as “one of
two persons compatible with each other in
disposition, point of view, or sensitivity.”
Regardless of your personal beliefs about soul
mates, it is possible to attract a partner with
whom you can experience unconditional love and
acceptance. Everyone can have a love that lasts
forever, regardless if your understanding of
eternity
is over the course of one or many lifetimes.
I know because I’ve found my soul mate, that
soul mate love
far surpasses chemical attraction; it overcomes all duality, role playing,
ego, pride, and superficiality. But, you must first discover this kind of love
for your own self, and become your own soul mate, before you will ever truly receive
this kind of love from another.
ATTRACT SOUL MATE:
Finding a person committed to loving and accepting you for who you really are, without
condition, requires you first learning to love and accept your self in this same way.
You must give to your self and others, that which you wish to receive, and learn
to stop
looking outside of your self for acceptance. Only once you can give to your self
that which you desire to receive from another, will you attract a soul mate into
your life through The Law of Attraction.
Physics defines The Law of Attraction as the mutual (shared
in common) action by which bodies or particles tend to draw together or cohere
(hold together in a mass that resists separation). You must make yourself
like that which you wish to attract and stay together with. Instead of
asking "when will I find my soul mate", you should be asking "how do I find
myself"... "how do I love and honor myself the way I wish to be loved and honored
by another." In truth, your soul mate first and foremost must be and is YOU.
Continued here:
how do i
find myself?
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